✉️ Let’s Connect

Thank you for visiting The Tender Mess. Whether you’ve been following my recipes for a while or you just stumbled upon a comforting casserole on Pinterest, I’m truly grateful you’re here.

I created this space to share not just recipes – but little pieces of life. So if you’ve got a story, a question, or a moment worth sharing, I’d love to hear from you.


📧 General Inquiries

Have a question about a recipe? Need help with a substitution? Want to tell me that your toddler actually liked the lentil soup (and that never happens)?

Feel free to email me at:
contact@thetendermess.com

I personally read and respond to every message that comes through – usually within 2–3 business days (or slightly longer if I’m knee-deep in cookie dough).


🤝 Brand Collaborations

I love partnering with thoughtful, food-friendly brands whose products align with the values of The Tender Mess – simplicity, nourishment, and heart. If you represent a brand and would like to collaborate, I’m open to:

  • Sponsored recipe development
  • Food styling and content creation
  • Product reviews (only items I truly love and use)
  • Social media partnerships (especially Pinterest)
  • Brand ambassadorships

I’m especially interested in working with brands that:

  • Celebrate honest, home cooking
  • Support sustainable or local ingredients
  • Offer tools or products that make everyday cooking easier

📩 Please include in your message:

  • A short overview of your brand
  • Campaign or partnership goals
  • Timeline and deliverables
  • Budget or payment structure

Send all media and PR inquiries to:
contact@thetendermess.com
Subject line: “Collaboration Inquiry – [Your Brand Name]”


📝 Recipe Feedback & Community

One of my favorite parts of blogging is hearing from you. If you’ve tried a recipe and made it your own, have tips for other readers, or simply want to share your version – I welcome your feedback.

Please:

  • Leave a comment directly on the blog post (it helps others too!)
  • Or email me your kitchen win (or honest fail – we’ve all had them)

I also love learning what kinds of recipes you want more of – whether that’s slow cooker dinners, cozy desserts, or beginner-friendly staples. Your input helps shape what’s next on the blog.


📌 Stay in the Loop

  • 📍 Follow me on Pinterest for fresh recipes and seasonal inspiration
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  • 🫶 Share your recreations with me via email or comments

Thanks for taking the time to reach out. This blog wouldn’t exist without the people who read it, cook from it, and share it with others. You matter here.

With warmth,
Ruby